Want to pop my own cherry?

i popped my own on accident, it doesnt mean your not a virgin and your not crazy, im kinda glad i did though. i has sex for the first time a few months ago and i know its supposed to hurt, but it didnt and i was relieved. so its not such a bad or crazy thing to pop it your self and i understand the emotional part of having a guy pop it and then use it against you a friend of mine had that done to her and she took it really hard. so i you want to do it just be careful.