Why do women ignore the work of good men and glorify the no good ones?

Fathers Day is more about who isn't there then who has actually been there thru thick and thin. I broke my father's family cycle and my son and step-daughter will see what it means to be a family. However, whether its my in-laws(mother & sister) or women I know, who will deny my presence but insists that the deadbeat who hasn't done sh&* all year gets his time. I hope SOME of you ladies get your priorities in order because ALL of the fathers doing their thing are tired of hearing about these tired excuses of men!