Is this okay??femenist or just a dumb femenist?

so i have a cousin that shes all "anti-men" but yet she loves hanging out with them and hooking up which is cool with me idc but does it really make sense and she says its okay for girls to go sleep with all these guys and talk bout their intimacies with other ppl like how guys do it you know? like for example male rappers rap about "i got money and bitches and get my d*** suked" and lil kim rappin bout her vajay and how she knows how to satisfy..to me she sounds like a glorified hoe..but my cousin says thats its not fair about how men can and women cant and blah blah, she says shes a feminist..but i dont know..to me women are suppose to be a treasure and not all over the place